Everyone’s sex drive is different and operates at various levels. From being asexual and difficult to arouse, to craving sex as often as possible, and every level in between. Whether you’re looking to become more easily stimulated, or more available to a partner who is after sex often, there are many ways to increase sex drive.
Most all men of various ages around the World have woken up with an erection, in other words ‘morning wood’, at one point or another. It’s incredibly common and is known in the medical field as nocturnal penile tumescence, or NPT.
One of the more common excuses for this phenomenon you might hear is that he has to urinate real badly. That it’s a ‘pee-boner’. Yet this isn’t exactly true. According to Dr. Joseph Alukal, M.D., assistant professor of Urology, Obstetrics, and Gynecology at NYU Langone Medical Center;
“A guy in his 60’s or 70’s who wakes up and has to pee, that doesn’t happen anymore. It’s not directly related to that. The penis is a very strange organ in terms of its job and the way it traps blood inside it.”
As it turns out, NPT may happen at multiple times throughout the night as the body goes through various sleep cycles. There are about 4-5 cycles of R.E.M (rapid eye movement) sleep each night. Once the body enters this stage of sleep, norepinephrine decreases (a neuro-transmitter that causes vasoconstriction of penis blood vessels) and testosterone related actions begin to take place.
It’s no mystery that men and women are both sexy when they come across as aloof, coy, and mysterious. There’s a magical, mystical element to them that sparks a sense of danger and intrigue – an alluring uncertainty and open ‘void’ about them that anyone’s dream fantasy could be hiding behind. People are addicted to information, and knowledge is power (so they say), thus most of us wish to increase our intelligence. When key information is withheld, we become more attracted to it – people always want what they can’t have. So in being mysterious, the person gives off a vibe of untapped potential. A challenge.
In this way, mysterious people are sexy and seductive because they radiate a sense of deeply fascinating interest. Magnetizing others to them whom wish to be a part of the seemingly exclusive inner crowd of intellectual, thought-provoking, intimately connected people. And this seems happens whether they wish it to or not since their levels of mysterious curiosity grabs the attention of people everywhere they go.
Being a sexually active adult is entirely natural. A beautiful coupling of two living organisms whom share a connection/bond with one another. It’s when two consenting individuals decide to join together as one, fuse energies, and reach climax.
Yet what happens if the two of you find yourselves bored with the same usual sex routine? Or if you or your partner can’t quite ‘get there’? Or maybe you just want to make the entire experience even bigger, and that much more euphoric?
There is a science behind achieving orgasm, both for you and your male or female partner. Meaning there’s not much to them we don’t already know, which is great news beings as we can use this knowledge to our advantage to better heighten the libido and our state of arousal.
From a metaphysical, spiritual standpoint – there could potentially be several individuals in your lifetime who are soul mate potentials. A soul mate is someone who’s soul and vibrational spirit matches and amplifies your own. They could be anyone from a best friend, a lover, or a family member. They could be destined to be with you romantically, sexually, and intimately – or not. They could instead simply enter your lives as a friend or loving coworker who was guided to help your soul expand, as well as their own.
You’ll know a soul mate relationship is upon you if the individual makes you feel alive and rejuvenated, someone you get along with almost perfectly and whom you have many things in common with. They will exercise your soul and will have you safely venturing outside of your comfort zone to try new things and elevate both of your soul’s expansion. If it’s a soul mate with whom you enter a romantic partnership with, they will almost seem to meld their spirit with yours, as though becoming a single entity.
Kissing someone you have a crush on or locking lips with the person you love can be an extremely rewarding and pleasurable experience. Especially if you’re both really into each other, and awesome at kissing!
Yet if neither of you feel very comfortable and are overcome by nerves, kissing can get rather sloppy, or in some cases – somewhat dangerous. A bad kiss could potentially turn them off and make them second guess whether they want another date with you. But if done right, a good kiss could make them think of you nonstop and fall for you so much faster, and harder.