Love is usually a human experience of one person for another, and romantic love exists between two persons of the opposite (or same) sexual orientation and gender. Love and relationships go hand-in- hand! Love is an emotion, the most valuable treasure for any and every relationship. Love within a relationship enables closeness, trust, loyalty, and romance for the couple.
We all know there are obvious benefits to sleeping with someone else. The endorphins experienced during cuddle-sessions, the calories burned during intercourse, to the shared body heat when you’re freezing your toes off. Yet no one really talks about the benefits of sleeping alone.
These benefits range from an energetic and spiritual level for your soul’s expansion, as well as to a loving and romantic level with your life partner. Whether you sleep by yourself every night, or are in a relationship – setting aside a few nights a week (2-4) to sleep alone whether in a relationship or not, has the potential to provide several benefits on each of these levels.
The Sun, Moon, Venus, and Mars placement of a man or woman says a lot about what they seek from a relationship. Both in terms of what they have to offer, as well as what they may seek from a potential romantic partner. You can take a look at these placements on your chart or that of another to see what sign they’re in and go from there.
Typically, the Sun sign is representative of the personality and characteristics on a Soul level, such as how we may perceive ourselves and the evolution of our Soul’s journey on an intrinsic level. The Moon symbolizes our wants and desires, as well as our emotional response to various stimuli. Mars is indicative of divine masculine energy, as well as action, consequence, and the solid traits you have to offer someone in a relationship, or in the bedroom. Whereas Venus represents divine feminine energy, universal love, and the solid traits you seek from a romantic and sexual partner.
Finding (or keeping) a genuinely good man isn’t as hard as many women make it out to be. Lots of good, honest, decent fellas exist in the World today, the real trick is recognizing them when you see one. A healthy relationship begins with two individuals who keep it 100% real with each other instead of taking advantage or abusing that initial foundation of trust.
Once you find a man you’re interested in, or perhaps you’re already taken, there are many ways to figure out just what kind of a man he is. Whether he’s someone you could see yourself spending a lot of time with, or someone with whom you’d be better off without.
Men are a funny, crazy, complex kind of creature (women as well of course), but men have this way of being entirely unique and fascinating in their own ways. Sometimes it’s easy to charm them and have them following along behind you in an effort to make you theirs – other times it’s not so simple, and it’s a take a little practice and effort to fully capture their attention.
So what are some ways to do this? How will you know if he’s into you and really digging not just how you look, but also your personality and the silly little quirks that make you, you? What are some ways to figure out if he wants to take things to that next level, possibly start a steady relationship or just hang out more and become better friends before getting serious?
It’s no mystery that men and women are both sexy when they come across as aloof, coy, and mysterious. There’s a magical, mystical element to them that sparks a sense of danger and intrigue – an alluring uncertainty and open ‘void’ about them that anyone’s dream fantasy could be hiding behind. People are addicted to information, and knowledge is power (so they say), thus most of us wish to increase our intelligence. When key information is withheld, we become more attracted to it – people always want what they can’t have. So in being mysterious, the person gives off a vibe of untapped potential. A challenge.
In this way, mysterious people are sexy and seductive because they radiate a sense of deeply fascinating interest. Magnetizing others to them whom wish to be a part of the seemingly exclusive inner crowd of intellectual, thought-provoking, intimately connected people. And this seems happens whether they wish it to or not since their levels of mysterious curiosity grabs the attention of people everywhere they go.
Are you single? Are you the only one of your friends who’s the loner of the bunch? The one that plays ‘third wheel’ often, or watches from a distance as your couple-friends make out with each other and hold hands all the time? Or… maybe you’re in a relationship but miss the days of being wild and free? Perhaps you’ve forgotten how it feels altogether and aren’t sure of your identity outside of being in a relationship?
Being single is often made out to be a bad thing, as though not being with someone makes you an outcast or feel as though you don’t belong. Yet once in a relationship, it’s sometimes all too easy to lose sight of who we are as an individual and all the beautiful things that make us unique. What works best is being able to find solid middle ground and enjoying the many fabulous perks that fall beneath the term ‘single’.
From a metaphysical, spiritual standpoint – there could potentially be several individuals in your lifetime who are soul mate potentials. A soul mate is someone who’s soul and vibrational spirit matches and amplifies your own. They could be anyone from a best friend, a lover, or a family member. They could be destined to be with you romantically, sexually, and intimately – or not. They could instead simply enter your lives as a friend or loving coworker who was guided to help your soul expand, as well as their own.
You’ll know a soul mate relationship is upon you if the individual makes you feel alive and rejuvenated, someone you get along with almost perfectly and whom you have many things in common with. They will exercise your soul and will have you safely venturing outside of your comfort zone to try new things and elevate both of your soul’s expansion. If it’s a soul mate with whom you enter a romantic partnership with, they will almost seem to meld their spirit with yours, as though becoming a single entity.